Promises That Reveal The Change Of Your Life
Education is the key, success is power, but a promise is forever. The education we face or engage into has a way of helping us and making our thoughts different which helps with the many successes we will eventually go through, but we learn through each and every common mistake in life. An extraordinary thought process that divides us from each group. What we see today is not the same as tomorrow, so make today last like the last breath, absorb the knowledge shared where ever you go, and remember a LIE is the demise that is the most difficult to absorb, so keep every promise like it was your last one to give.
How is it that everyone seems to make promises they never keep? Or why is it that the promises they keep never match the words coming out their mouth? These promises kept something worth holding! People, what is it with the relationships these days, are you still looking for Mr. or Miss right, why not just look for the person who makes you happy inside, the individual that keep things moving to make the team stronger.
Ladies Mr. Right is a figment of the imagine nation, he does not live in this generation so the good guy you keep pushing away, guess what, he might just be Mr. Right on time.
Gentlemen, if you can even call yourself that, stop groping these ladies with those imagine eyes, stop being afraid to approach her and just do it, and make the first impression one she will always remember.
And when we make these promises, how about being adults and not little children and stick to them. If words are our expression then what’s a promise, in my option, is it is an expressionless thought through which we share. There have been times where we have told each other how we feeling through conversation, sometimes we don’t even say a word, when we glimpse or look a certain way the one we are with knows exactly what is trying to be said without words. But the promises come from us trying to make the best impression we can.
So in other words:
Promise to never do you wrong
Promise to hold you in your time of pain
Promise not to interrupt you as you speak
Promise no one will be as understanding as you are
Promise to understand your thoughts and feelings
Promise to keep what we say as we say it (no he say, she say)
These are good promises, now let me ask you, and you ask yourself: How many of these promises have you followed through on. Have you met all the criteria that go along with each promise? Or do you just say it to get closer to that person just to show your true self latter on when the other person is not expecting the change. Promises are like heartbreaks they never seem to be fixed with a simple “I LOVE YOU.”
The reason it will never be this easy is because the thought process it takes to break a heart or ruin a promise is the exact same effort. Which evidently revolves around one word “LIES,” a unimaginable truth that make love what love is, just a word. Most people revolve their life around lies and deceit, so to them a promise is everyday language. What they are not realizing is that the defeat they are passing to the one they love or care very much for will have a very hard time talking to or getting to know anyone else because of the broken heart or promises they have already endured.
These relationship parts of our lives cannot break us as individuals, it is only when we open that gateway to our hearts do we feel so much, how through pain the anger we feel resurfaces and we feel the whole world is upon us. But it is not, it is the inner child that has been dormant, this is the person we send out when we first meet someone of the interest. But once the real pain sets, the beast of the anger takes hold, and everyone becomes a victim, another obstacle we must overcome to make us the person we want to be.
As you finish reading this, you will be asking yourself these questions:
Am I where I want to be
Is my counterpart willing to expect or except change
Have I kept each and every promise
Are we right for each other
Am I as happy as I want to be
Only as an adult can you fully understand what has been written, because this is the life each one of us leads in this generation everyday of our lives. And the ones we hurt will not hurt forever, the pain will subdue itself in time. We each control our own destiny; our futures are controlled by what path we seem to follow in life. But we ultimately control our lives day by day and our actions speak loudly, in the end though we have to keep the promises we make in our day to day lives in order for anyone else to truly take our words seriously.
The vast amounts of promises that we make can reveal our own destiny but we lye and don’t want to be honest, this is why we are hurt in so many different ways, as an adult we make and break promises on a daily basis whether it is to our children or our selves and that in the end in when we need to be the most careful.