Word Are Our Expression

Words are an expression of how we feel, how we verbally express ourselves, yet the words that are expressed at the wrong time can have a profound effect on our counterparts. We all expect to realize what we say and why, but in the heat of the moment those very words can make us happy, cry and maybe even worst. What is this that makes us want to act so engaged so out of place with our words? Things aren’t always what they seem to be.

There are words of encouragement as well as words that destroy, some of the common words are:

• I love you

• I need you

• I hate you

• You are so beautiful

These are the expression of words that will not work unless you know how to use them. If you love a person DO NOT treat them like they don’t exist six months later. In the beginning you are on a relationship trial, so try not to mess it up by changing your ways when you get to know each other. If passion is why you are together, make passion why you stay together. The problem with couples today is each person feels that one or the other:

• Has to be in control

• Have the last word

• Be inferior to one another

• Have mental or physical power

• Be inconsiderate

But he/she have to understand this is life, and life comes at each of you with complications, and hardships. So why deal with the hardship or make the complication default in the relationship. Why are relationships full of stress instead of a stress relief? Yet we open our mouth to ask: “Why do we cheat?” Well let me explain in more detail so everyone can get the full understanding.

We do not cheat because we figure: if she/he won’t do it then someone else will no, this is what has been instilled. We cheat because the person he/she is with has not understood or figured out why the relationship took place or has been engaged in the first place. And because the pain has built up over time he/she feels that there has to be a way to find what was really lost in another person.

And even though he/she may still find interest in the one they are with, the person that has caught their interest has done more for their uplifting sprit he/she has been searching for. This is found because the feelings in the previous relationship have ultimately been lost over time. See we all live in real life and it doesn’t stop until our life revolves to its end.

Why is it that he/she has put so much into a relationship just to be hurt in the long run, it is because over time their guard or wall has been taking down and he/she leaves themselves open for the torment and destruction, and he/she doesn’t leave the pain because through it all he/she has had children. But children do not make the relationship it is not their fault mommy and daddy fight. That is mom and dad’s fault that the words have went from a fire cracker to explode like a plane bomb.

And now the mental has gone verbal which will eventually turn physical this is when the pain really takes its ultimate toll. The Bible explains to us: “Do unto others as you want them to do unto you,” yet we do unto others and never worry about the reparations that may happen to us in the long run. What gives he/she the right to make the relationship the worst thing he/she has ever been involved with, and still have the nerve to say: “I LOVE YOU,”. What is real love if it hurts when your heart is ripped out every day and you want to hurt yourself or you feel the rage of explosion?

These words, the very thing that motors our humbleness or makes us speak out from ear to ear. If he/she has strong feelings or the factor of caring has set in, then why do words hurt so bad, why do they make relationships turn upside down so quickly. And why is it so default to find true love without having to search database or newspapers or any other type of media that is thrown in his/hers face every time they turn around or go into this real world of ours.

The good news is true love is out there and even though we have to go through an obstacle course to find it, it will eventually find us whether we are with someone or we are alone. Think of it this way, when you were born you were alone, when you die you will be alone, so maybe the heart that has been broken over, and over at least it won’t last long. Plus you are who you are because of who you are and no one person can change YOU. So be careful with the words you use because well, you just never know.

You may never know how you affect a person with what you say or do even if that person is you yourself, what is always obvious is the emotional strain that you leave, you would never want to feel like no ones cares so why treat a person in that very way. Look into you heart, open you mind and realize that in theory life is as it is and what we say and do to each other has a revolting effect, if you care, then care but don’t play with the heart, cause in the end this is what hurts the most.